LOGIC VS. EMOTIONS

I have a very hard time understanding logic vs. emotions. I had this situation where I hear people ripping others, a couple of times they ripped previous mates. So in another day I ripped someone’s previous mate…punishment. Cut off and immediately was admonished in a way I still can not comprehend. You can’t talk about who I have been with only I can do that! Why? It’s my experience, not yours! So if I go to school and learn the chemical breakdown of H2O and tell you can you tell someone? That’s different! Both situations revolve around information…if you don’t want someone to use that info…don’t say it.