Tuesday, July 11, 2006

TRIBUTE PART 2


TRIBUTE...PART 2(you know her...you love her)TO THE MEN...NOT THE MALES!

This picture is why I have FINALLY come with this one...a very long overdue addition to my first tribute.
This pic encapsulates everything that a woman is thoughtful...thought-provoking...and above all beautiful.BTW...thanks Freda for not being mad at me for using this, or at least I hope you are not mad.
So many times I have heard my male co-horts say that "I wish I could understand a woman". Well let's destroy that MYTH...stop saying something because you think that’s what women want to hear. They want us as men to say “because I love you I do understand you". We have been playing roles that have women saying “we are running out of good men". Ladies allow me to speak for myself (for that is the only one I can speak for) and say I have failed you.
Yes that’s it...failed you. I know I failed when i hear that you are in pain and I didn’t come to your rescue...not as your dick...not come to you as a booty call...but step to you as a MAN. Not as a male but as a man. I know there are many men who are guilty of that same childish act, but it is not my place to condemn anyone other than myself. When I remember when I was stupid enough to call women bitches and hoes, I realized those words were better suited for myself. Imprinting is a bitch, using any lie draped under the guise of love to get sex. Damn did I play myself? How many lives did I play with to feed my own ego?
I think that is enough of that...now lets get to how I was able to do that. I knew the thoughts and feelings of a woman. And when I didn’t know I asked.
The myth that has been running rampant is that men don’t communicate. I call to the picture above. How can any man not want to talk to and love a woman when she is like that?
It took a woman to show me love is not in your pants. She has the ability to bring the word BEAUTY to life. Women taught me that “I can’t complete her, she showed up complete".
We as men know what women want...us don’t need a crystal ball to do that. Just listen, be attentive, and above all show them the love they show us. I have seen the most harden-hearted woman melt when she was loved. So that throws the B.S. They don’t want to be loved out of the window.
So men love our women, give them all the love they deserve that means all you have (NO HALF-STEPPIN) and know it is not vertical how you show love it is by your words...your actions backing those words (THATS RIGHT BE TRUTHFUL) up with RESPECT...
Because if you didn’t know she equates love with respect...not the flowers on Valentines Day, ( That doesn’t mean stop giving her flowers though), not the I love you's when you to part(don’t stop doing that either)or get off the phone.
It means be there...accept who she is...praise her positives...help her with her negatives...and remember she needs you to love her...so she can grow, and as she grows so will you.
THANK YOU TO ALL WHO HAVE READ MY BLOG ENTRIES...EVEN IF SOME WERE NOT ON MY SITE (YES I HAVE WRITTEN ON OTHERS BLOGS TO SHOW POEPLE THAT MEN DO KNOW THE THOUGHTS OF WOMEN).
I AM FINISHED WRITING IN THIS CHAPTER...TIME FOR SOMTHING NEW!
SEE YOU ON THE OTHER SIDE OF LOGIC7777

1 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I believe we still have "good men" out there, they just haven't found the sole they are looking through..Some see the sole as empty and rejected. It takes some searching for some....I believe it takes a women to help open up the heart at one point or another. When you find a good women just treat her as the way you would treat your own. that is where you will find the sole you are looking for..It is usally right infront of you. It takes time to clear the smoke but you do find it!!

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