YOU SEE WHAT HAPPEN WAS?
It amazes me when someone uses those beautiful responsibility absolving quotes. When is it consciously okay to do something so wrong that the explanation is “one thing led to another” or the graceful “it was in the moment? Its never” I meant to punch you or I wanted to sleep with him or her”. There is a moment in time that we know…this is the moment that I have to stop. Why do we see the ending of so many situations but carelessly venture forth into a horrible ending. The moment of pleasure outweighs the extensive time of pain.
Possibilities, the antithesis of answers, it is truly the unreasonable reasons. One of man’s greatest weaknesses is never admitting what wrong they will do under the right circumstances. We go through life with a moral constitution made of rice paper. Always ready to blame our mistakes on “the moment” all along knowing in their minds they were the architect of the mistake. Truly knowing ones self with an outward admittance has to have benefits. Acting as if “yes I am flawed” and knowing enough to say “these are my flaws.” But there in lies the true flaw, or at least the true reason for not saying it, doesn’t want to take ownership for themselves. Where is the holistic mantra of “keep your mind, body, and spirit healthy? Where is the ownership?
Is it in the cars we drive, the clothes we wear, the homes we live in? Rarely do we see it in our relationships (the divorce rate is a prime example of that) that we have. It damn sure is not in the conditions of our bodies (didn’t know that the morbidly obese would inherit the earth) that we have so freely discounted for the outer skin. It really isn’t in our mental ability (if you can’t decipher this one on your own, you’ve proven my point) that we no longer honor as the real, true, and only frontier. We live as we speak…a contradiction, lacking truth or validity. Speaking in double talk hoping no one ever gets to see our hidden agendas. And a punishment fit for a killer if someone figures it out.
But in the end it really doesn’t matter. We are already on the track to failure…and with one declaration of ownership we could turn it around. That is the tragic part of it all ownership can save us. Not a messiah, not a fitness guru, or even a good relationship with our parents. We need a healthy relationship with ourselves. No one can fix you by telling you what is wrong…HELL why tell you what you already know? But you can have help once you acknowledge the need and desire of change.
Possibilities, the antithesis of answers, it is truly the unreasonable reasons. One of man’s greatest weaknesses is never admitting what wrong they will do under the right circumstances. We go through life with a moral constitution made of rice paper. Always ready to blame our mistakes on “the moment” all along knowing in their minds they were the architect of the mistake. Truly knowing ones self with an outward admittance has to have benefits. Acting as if “yes I am flawed” and knowing enough to say “these are my flaws.” But there in lies the true flaw, or at least the true reason for not saying it, doesn’t want to take ownership for themselves. Where is the holistic mantra of “keep your mind, body, and spirit healthy? Where is the ownership?
Is it in the cars we drive, the clothes we wear, the homes we live in? Rarely do we see it in our relationships (the divorce rate is a prime example of that) that we have. It damn sure is not in the conditions of our bodies (didn’t know that the morbidly obese would inherit the earth) that we have so freely discounted for the outer skin. It really isn’t in our mental ability (if you can’t decipher this one on your own, you’ve proven my point) that we no longer honor as the real, true, and only frontier. We live as we speak…a contradiction, lacking truth or validity. Speaking in double talk hoping no one ever gets to see our hidden agendas. And a punishment fit for a killer if someone figures it out.
But in the end it really doesn’t matter. We are already on the track to failure…and with one declaration of ownership we could turn it around. That is the tragic part of it all ownership can save us. Not a messiah, not a fitness guru, or even a good relationship with our parents. We need a healthy relationship with ourselves. No one can fix you by telling you what is wrong…HELL why tell you what you already know? But you can have help once you acknowledge the need and desire of change.
2 Comments:
If you put yourself in a point of no return then you need to ask yourself am I strong enough to except the pain...Sometimes in order to “keep your mind, body, and spirit healthy" you run into the "flaw". Everyone has that "flaw" The pain and possibilities of being a "flawed human" are endless..DO you have ownership of ones self? Can you sence the pain or the failure? Can you know what the outcome will be in your relationship or life itself. God has put us on this earth to explore and determine the best to our knowledge. If on our adventure thru life we encounter pain and weakness we need to feel it as God has felt it...He handled it....for us
There will always be "PAIN" through your adventures. I beleive God puts it in your eyes for you to handle it as he did...
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